Monday, March 5, 2007

Shopping Makes Me Sad

Many women love to go shopping., I don't. As I wander through a shopping mall, it makes me sad to see store after store filled with so much merchandise that we really don't need. Think about it.....how many brands, models, colors there are of toothpaste, shampoo, diapers, socks, yogurt, microwaves, compact cars, Tshirts, toys,etc,etc. The selection is so vast, that we have this compulsion & stress to find exactly the right thing at the best possible price and will drive miles to get it.
I am also sad when I see another Mega Box-store building going up. As I look at them, I see many dreams shattered again because small family businesses are forced into bankruptcy because they can't compete .
Years ago, I worked in the only flower shop in town. When people wanted to send flowers, they automatically called our shop. Trends changed when others, such as gas stations, grocers, large chain stores and it seemed like everybody and anybody, began to sell flowers too. My boss, Cathy, became so discouraged & depressed as she saw her dreams and investment slipping away, that she just closed the doors one day and left everything.

In many countries the baker still sells bread, the butcher still sells meat, the farmer still sells his produce, the tailor still sews the clothes. People still know each other by name and there is a sense of community and friendship. I don't experience this at Costco. (Yes, I confess, I shop there too.)
My greatgrandfather stood in line for hours to buy a loaf of bread, only to be told to go home because the shelves were empty.
There's a serious virus going around, even in our churches. It's called "affluenza". We have too much, but still want more and that makes me sad.



3 comments:

Dave said...

Well said. "Affluenza" - excellent. Nothing like a good pun.
I, too, long for a simpler time. And just because simplicity is in the past, that doesn't mean it can't also be in the future.
Then again, maybe I'm just a dreamer.
-Dave

Sister C said...

You are so right. Thankfully(can hardly beleive I think that) we live in a small town now and our living is back to that simple you talk of. Going to the store quickly is hardly possible becasue of all the friends I meet there.

by the way Hi E greetings from manitoba - Cindy

Anonymous said...

"Affluenza" - did you come up with this yourself?? It is perfect!